We use tools from "How to Know a Person" by David Brooks to improve our social interactions for long-term health.
In Lesson 3 of this series, we use David Brooks's book --"How to Know a Person" -- to discover how to look past surface words, navigate hard conversations with empathy, and ask story-framing questions that build deep human connection. We focus on Chapters Nine and Fifteen.
Vibrant social interactions are one key to healthy and happy longevity. We need to keep developing our social skills as we age. David Brooks has a fantastic guide to this process: How to Know a Person. Dive in and learn some new skills.
It's only been out a few years, but this work is already on my "go-to" reference shelf. Well worth it for us seniors learning (and yearning) to communicate with others...
Here's David Brooks in an interview with SoundsTrue. Note where he discusses the power of the "redemption" story in America, but that's not always a universally popular story across the globe...hence, the need for conversations with others to know them better.
Track the data. Adjust the course. Own the results.